Phone calls
I'm getting tired of getting calls on my cell phone during school hours. I think that the person who is doing this knows that I'm not going to be available so he leaves me messages so he'll avoid having to talk to me. That person never calls me when I'm out of school and can talk, and never calls on my home phone at night when I'm home. It also bugs me that even though I turn my cell phone off before I go to school, if one day I forget because we're rushing, if my phone goes off during class or school hours I will have it taken away from me for the entire school year. That is not the only way I have to contact someone if something went wrong.
The best time to call me is after 6 at night, up until 8 o'clock. It really does hurt my feelings that this person only calls me when he knows I can't talk on the phone and they always leave messages saying that the next time they talk to me they want to schedule a time to see each other, but that person never keeps their promise. That really disappoints me. If someone really wants to see me then they should call my mom and make plans not with me. I am getting tired of getting excited and then let down.
It also hurt my feelings that no one called me for Halloween, not even a text message. Nothing happened.
I really wanted to see everyone in L.A. before the race, but I guess they didn't want to see me cause all they had to do was call mom, and we are leaving in 12 days.
I hope that this one does not get ignored like the feelings one did. I know that this person looked at the feelings one cause it shows on my counter and which blogs they look at.
I don't want to embarrass anyone that is why I didn't use any names this time.
Cody
posted by C.M.S. @ 7:49 PM
2 Comments:
Hi Cody and Pauline
I'm glad you had such fun on Halloween. You looked really cute. I do want to...I don't know, make a suggestion I guess. As it is, I may be the only one on the Schreiner-side still visiting your blog site. I know you both feel strongly about sharing your feelings, and I don't want to take a position of anyone being wrong or right, but please understand that by using these blog entries to deliver these painful messages in public, you have in effect caused most of those you are trying to reach to avoid coming to your site at all. Again, I'm not telling you to change or anything else, but I thought you should know that many in your family prefer speaking in person or sharing this kind of difficult news through letters, and that continuing to use the blog for these messages means that they won't be coming back to read about all the wonderful things you're doing, and I think that's too bad, cause I really enjoy seeing your pictures and hearing about the different things you all have been doing.
I hope my note doesn't make you feel bad, and you don't need to even respond back. I just wanted you to know. Lots of love--Uncle Billy
Good Morning Angel Girl! I'm sorry to hear that you are having a problem with someone calling you on your cell phone while you are at school. Even I know not to do that because once I called Connor not realizing that he was still in achool. He didn't answer of course so I left a message. As soon as he could he called me back & asked me to please not call him during school hours, so I don't. I even try not to call him while he is at work, because I know that he is busy as he is in school & his boss & his teacher's really wouldn't appreciate it. I agree somewhat with Uncle Billie about expressing you feelings on the blog but unfortunately for you that is just about the only way you can do it. I was told by a few professional people that it helps to write down your feelings & it will help. Maybe it does for you to do it this way. If it does then continue. If someone doesn't like reading about the "truth," well you know what they say, "the truth hurts."
Some people are so narcissistic I think that they will read your blog anyway just because it is about them. Good or bad news doesn't make any difference just as long as they know they are the center of it. I feel sorry for that person because they have no idea how much they are missing by excluding you from their lives. You are a wonderful, caring & loving little girl & I pray sosmeday they will realize this before it is too late. I love you lot's & please don't let other people's hurtfull ways distroy your loving heart. Nana
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